I often hear someone say something like this: “It doesn’t really matter what you believe, as long as you believe something sincerely. All religions are basically about the same thing. They just look at it differently.” When I hear someone say this, I can always sympathize with the person saying it. I really do understand why they have come to this conclusion.
There are so many nice, sincere people who hold completely different views of the world and of spiritual things. How could so many of them be wrong? How could only one of them be right? We don’t want to offend any of them. We don’t want to discount their sincerely held beliefs. It’s just easier to say they’re all right. Besides, when we start saying that one is right and another is wrong, we sound arrogant, and this can lead to conflict, even violence.
It’s a generous, pragmatic and, seemingly, peaceable solution to simply say, “all faiths are equally true.” But we need to understand that even saying that every faith claim is equally true is a faith claim in itself, and it has some significant problems to overcome if it is to be reasonable.
First of all, in most cases sincerity implies exclusivity. If you get a Christian, a Muslim, and a Buddhist in a room and ask them if the beliefs of the others are equally as true as their own, none of them would say “yes.” In most cases, none of them would expect any of the others to say “yes” either. They understand that commitment to a set of beliefs means that you consider them to be true. Other beliefs, to whatever extent they contradict your own, you consider to be false. Sincerity requires exclusivity. If you suggest that a person should accept the beliefs of others as equal to his/her own beliefs, you are asking them to hold their own beliefs with less conviction, less sincerity.
Even when we say, “I believe that all faith claims are equally valid,” we are making an exclusive faith claim. I have found that the people who are least tolerant of my beliefs are often those who most loudly cry for tolerance. They are offended that my belief logically requires me to assume that the beliefs of others, when they contradict my own, are false. And yet, even as they cry, “intolerant,” they are asserting that their belief (that all faiths are equally true) is true to the exclusion of my belief (that my faith is ultimately true). They can sometimes be as angry in defense of their position as any fundamentalist Christian I’ve ever seen.
So, while I sympathize with my friends who want to avoid the issue of truth completely by saying every belief is equally true, I can’t let them off that easily. We can be civil and respectful of others, and we should. We can be tolerant of people who hold beliefs that are different from ours, and it is only right that we should be so. But to claim that every belief is true is to say that no belief is true. When we do this, we have sacrificed respect for the sake of civility, and reasonableness for the sake of tolerance. Our well-intentioned generosity has sucked the hope for any meaning whatsoever out of the faith of everyone on the planet.
